Finally this battle has started, the end of 2008. After a long time without strong pressure and anxiety, I have to remind myslef back to buzy life and aggressive atmosphere again.

 

3 years master study is such a long time, so long as I have to count my time cost into this whole job-hunting process. However, I dont regret that I chose to go to Beijing and continue master, I learned so much during the past 2 years, met so many nice people around the world, went to so many beautiful and interesting places, attended so many amazing events.

 

Well, now it's the time for me to reanalyse myself and my life for the past 23 years. What did I gain from all these experiences? I believe I have changed somehow, under a sense maybe I even havn't noticed, my values and attitude of life has been changing together with the time and things I have done. I should really try to figure out, which industry I really want to devote myself into? What kind of staff I am really good at? What kind of job can reward me more with happiness and satisfaction? What kind of job enables me to live inside a high-level and healthy network full of people who share the same thoughts and dreams as me?

 

After traveling around, I start to realize the importance of friends and family. I could do whatever I can to be with people I really care. That's another big part of satisfaction in life, which balance you between work and career, which gives you much more comfort and joy, which leads you to discorver the real meaning of life.

 

It is quite clear that this is a battle which I have to win for sure. It will be really tough, full of the struggles of choices, questions of value selections, risks of giving up or moving on.

 

Well, actually this is only the first step, to open the door to a bright future. To get closer to the life I really want. I will be brave and calm, try my best to manage and face up to all the challenges coming up soon.

 

Thanks Dad and Mom and Grandma, your love and support made me so strong; thanks all dear friends, your care and help gave me so much power; thanks you, you know I love you too.

 

Bless. For everybody who is achieving the goal.

 

 

步鸟的后尘终于去买了这部电影来看。看后终于彻底明白了《傲慢与偏见》,《理智与情感》中那种感情的源头。原来永远都是作者自己的故事最为感人，才女与浪子无疾而终的爱最为让人扼腕,一如张爱玲与胡兰成,杜拉斯与中国情人,Jane和Tom。

 

看到影片的末尾,当Tom牵着那位酷似表妹Lucy的少女出现时,贯穿全片悠扬婉转的音乐再次响起,仿佛开始追忆Jane和Tom第一次的相遇.就那么慢慢在尴尬,鄂怒和争辩中感受到了灵魂的契合.男演员James McAvoy把Tom这个角色把握地很好,风流倜傥花名在外的背后却是满溢的才华和沉重的背负,若非如此简也不会爱上她, 从他给她那本书开始,他打开了她很大的一个世界.而让人伤感的是,正是因为最后离开了他,她才成为了简奥斯丁.

 

很多个场面都让我禁不住潸然泪下.当简说"My hear is flying","My happiness is within my grasp and I can not help",这些看似简单却入木三分地刻画出爱情真谛的台词;当他们手牵手随着奔驰的马车一起奔向未来;当Jane最终还是对Tom说:"But if our love destroys your family, it will destroy itself."

 

看到这里就明白了一切.Jane终究还是个理智的女子,或者说才女对于爱情的寄望永远是高于现实的,就好比影片的最后一幕,当经过二十年的世事变迁,二人再次平静地面对面,已然两翼鬓白的Tom给Jane介绍自己的女儿,和她有着一样的名字,而这位已经大红大紫的女作家脸上突然露出少女的神情.原来她对他的爱一直在那里,仿若初识时交换眼神的一次心动或夜幕中矜持的一个吻,只是更加绵长深厚。当她又一次在他面前朗读她的文字,时间仿佛回到了他们第一次见面的时候,Jane再一次向这个男人表达她婉转隽永的爱---正是他给她的回忆另这份爱在她的文字中历久弥新.

 

是什么样的男人可以让温婉静若的才女绽放出如此灿烂的初恋笑容

眼神交换的心动 舞会的这一幕堪称本片的经典

 

回到现实的今天,能成为简的女人凤毛麟角.而如今世俗的桎梏也不再如从前那么坚不可摧,但脆弱的我们很多时候依然挣扎不过五光十色的诱惑,抑或我们需要斗争的,只是自己的内心.

闲暇的一个下午和宠物一休去了新开的宽窄巷子.其实对此地早有所耳闻,5.12大地震之后成都的旅游业遭遇重创,宽窄巷子的重新开放算是成都开始重新振兴旅游业的第一个举措.还是来看图说话吧:)

 

追溯宽窄巷子的历史渊源要一直回到清代,康熙五十七年间准噶尔部窜扰西藏,清朝廷即派三千官兵平息叛乱.叛乱结束之后选留千余官兵永驻成都并建满城-即如今的少城.

经过200余年的风雨飘零,如今的少城只剩下宽窄两条巷子.

 

经过改装后的宽巷子街貌,初看颇有上海新天地的味道,实际是成都的"老天地"

 

宽窄巷子的主体建筑主要是像这样的清代的院落,宽窄巷子共有这样的院落大大小小45个

 

井巷子则以"新旧-东西"结合为主,露天院落里的西餐厅,中式风情饰品店和西式小洋楼都是井巷子里常见的建筑

当然,极富成都特色的小吃,大熊猫也是必不可少的 光看这些名字就流口水啊~~~

剪纸福娃也相当可爱

看了那么多皇宫,教堂,欧式宫廷,再来看中国的古典建筑,又另有一番韵味. 中国和西方都有着伟大的文化精髓,我很欣喜现在中国也开始重视规范和包装自己的旅游业,尽管此举势必令众多名胜都披上商业的外衣,可在全球化的如今,想要大范围宣传弘扬中国的传统文化,"商业"是必不可缺的推手.期待着更多的朋友来中国旅游:)

最后和一休来露一小脸儿:P 成功重新变成了小白甚是开心 欢迎大家来成都&用一句成都形象宣传的新Slogan—I love my city!